"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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need serious serious advice, and i need it now

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Moofahsa

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My g/f left her purse on top of my car and it blew off and got run over.

I went back and spent an hour and a half picking up all her receipts and junk. Long story short I find a love letter from her EX that is from the period from where we were dating. Granted it is old and stained, but it is still from the time period we have been dating (probably over 3 or 4 months old)

What do I do? She went back to him twice in the past...and he is now in jail...this is obviously a jail letter. I don't know what to do here, part of me knows this woman is absolutely no good and another part wants to stay with here. First she said the letter was a year and a half old, which is total bull**** considering things in the letter suggest it cannot be more than 8 months old. Then she says it was in a pocket she never looks in, which isn't too believable because it is a page of notebook paper folded up in 4 parts....

What sucks more is I run into her every single day.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dont even bother dude its not even worth it. you can't trust her at all. why would u wanna be with a girl that wants her ex and has lied to you
 
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Downgrade her to fvck buddy status (cut all emotions for her) without telling her, while you look for other women.
 
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Guys in jail love every woman they can think of to write to. What is the length of his current sentence? At least you know he's not fvcking her if he's locked up.

The more troubling part is that she lied about it to you.
 
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