Real quick was the gf for 1.5yrs. broke up like 2 weeks ago. Talked to her maybe 4 times saw her once. I didnt call her all last week she called me last night too ***** about her life i wasl ike yea thats ok im going out so ill call you tomorrow cause she was suppose to come down yesterday but had to do some stuff. So i call her today and she answers real quick casual convo. say hey just checking to see if youre ok and seeing if you could come down tonight after youre done with your work.(shes getting a masters degree writing her thesis) its about 830pm here right now i talked to her at 2pm today she hasnt called yet. should i call her to see if shes comin or should i just say fvck it if she calls she calls and dont call her. what message would i be sending if i called and said just seeing if you were coming down or not. or if i didnt call to check at all?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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