"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Romeobadboi

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Hey team,

i am just getting back into the mode of being a Dj(went afc for a while)
Girl i been kinda seeing, with, msg me to go rockclimbing tommorow or the day after with 3 other guys(all Afcs) and 2 of her gfs,

i didnt msg her back yet,, i wanted to wait till tommorow to msg her back,

but when i do, do i give her a reason as to why i didnt msg her earlier ,,, or just plan and simple msg her the next day?

i kno this is kinda dj 101 ,,, but i am just getting back into reading the bible and everything agian

thanks in advance homies!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Just message her, Don't explain anything about why you texed her late.
 

BadNews

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I don't think you should have to explain yourself...ever to a woman you're not in a 'relationship' with. If she directly asks, or makes a comment, about your late response...you should give some kind of response obviously...but you can be as vague as you want. "Ya, I was pretty busy with x last night..so are we still on for climbing later or what?!" should be adequate.

DONT FORGET! NEVER APPOLOGIZE TO A WOMAN YOU'RE NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR ANY REASON WHATSOEVER! Its ok to give some sort of reason/excuse...just make sure the word 'sorry' doesn't appear.

Play things cool...be casual...act like its no big deal (your response, the timing of your response, and the idea of going climbing together)...it should all be fun/light/casual.

Best of luck!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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