"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey team,

i am just getting back into the mode of being a Dj(went afc for a while)
Girl i been kinda seeing, with, msg me to go rockclimbing tommorow or the day after with 3 other guys(all Afcs) and 2 of her gfs,

i didnt msg her back yet,, i wanted to wait till tommorow to msg her back,

but when i do, do i give her a reason as to why i didnt msg her earlier ,,, or just plan and simple msg her the next day?

i kno this is kinda dj 101 ,,, but i am just getting back into reading the bible and everything agian

thanks in advance homies!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just message her, Don't explain anything about why you texed her late.
 
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I don't think you should have to explain yourself...ever to a woman you're not in a 'relationship' with. If she directly asks, or makes a comment, about your late response...you should give some kind of response obviously...but you can be as vague as you want. "Ya, I was pretty busy with x last night..so are we still on for climbing later or what?!" should be adequate.

DONT FORGET! NEVER APPOLOGIZE TO A WOMAN YOU'RE NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR ANY REASON WHATSOEVER! Its ok to give some sort of reason/excuse...just make sure the word 'sorry' doesn't appear.

Play things cool...be casual...act like its no big deal (your response, the timing of your response, and the idea of going climbing together)...it should all be fun/light/casual.

Best of luck!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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