"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Romeobadboi

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Hey team,

i am just getting back into the mode of being a Dj(went afc for a while)
Girl i been kinda seeing, with, msg me to go rockclimbing tommorow or the day after with 3 other guys(all Afcs) and 2 of her gfs,

i didnt msg her back yet,, i wanted to wait till tommorow to msg her back,

but when i do, do i give her a reason as to why i didnt msg her earlier ,,, or just plan and simple msg her the next day?

i kno this is kinda dj 101 ,,, but i am just getting back into reading the bible and everything agian

thanks in advance homies!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Just message her, Don't explain anything about why you texed her late.
 

BadNews

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I don't think you should have to explain yourself...ever to a woman you're not in a 'relationship' with. If she directly asks, or makes a comment, about your late response...you should give some kind of response obviously...but you can be as vague as you want. "Ya, I was pretty busy with x last night..so are we still on for climbing later or what?!" should be adequate.

DONT FORGET! NEVER APPOLOGIZE TO A WOMAN YOU'RE NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR ANY REASON WHATSOEVER! Its ok to give some sort of reason/excuse...just make sure the word 'sorry' doesn't appear.

Play things cool...be casual...act like its no big deal (your response, the timing of your response, and the idea of going climbing together)...it should all be fun/light/casual.

Best of luck!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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