"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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!!!!!!need quick rsponse!!!!!im gonna do some crazy shtt!

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hey guys my friends are all good with women...and i asked them if i could hang around with them when they go to parties to pick up chicks...and so they are going to test me by asking me to do some crazy ****...in other words say some crazy **** or like aproach some girls...so should i do it?? to prove that i got the balls?? how can i prepare for this?? how can i get really confident and really quick lol?? these guys are actually good with women...


Keep it PCE
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Analyzeit

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just do it!, unless they setting you up as a joke but if you trust em go for it lol
 

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Go for it, just don't do anything stupid (don't get you legal trouble, damage your rep, or physically harm yourself =P).
 

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Well by what do you mean by "crazy sh*t"? Just be smart about what they tell you to say. Like if they say "Go to tell her that you want her to suck your d*ck." then don't do some "crazy sh*t" like that. That wasn't the best example but just go with your instincts. Good luck.
 

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Ya, only do it if you could trust them completely. If they're trying to have fun at your expense, tell them to **** off.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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peacefire

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no their like my best friends ay...their juz checkin to see if i got the balls to talk to them....yeh im probably gonna do it lol
 

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After reading your other thread, you need to be desensitized to this ****, so yeah I'd recommend it. Just use some judgement though on what crosses the line and what doesn't.
 
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