Need quick help guys

[MrJack]

Short background: Met girl couple weekends ago, lots of flirting, got her number, first attempt to make date she was busy with no counter offer, gave her some time, made plans again and this time she accepted, not a real “date” because it will be a group setting.

So just now I tried getting her alone before we meetup with everyone as someone suggested in my other post and I need your opinions on how to respond to it since I suck at texting.

This is how it went:

Me: I can feel it from all the way over here.. you’re excited

Her: I AM SO EXCITED!!

Her: How did you know my boss literally just asked me what i was doing tonight and i was talking about you haha

Me: You told your boss you’re doing me tonight? I’m flattered but slow down there..

Me: Let’s grab a drink at old towne before we meetup with the others

Her: Hahah no i just said i was going out with some friends...no one is doing anyone tonight I would be so down but I’m getting dinner with my friend Aly before!!! I figured you might wana hangout with the guys first.. :/ what time are you gunna be here?!

I realize her saying no one is doing anyone is just a **** test not to be taken seriously but I seem to get stuck on this one sometimes.

Help me come up with something good/funny/noncaring to say before I tell her when I’ll be there lol

 

[ohrein]

Me: There are definitely people doing each other tonight! I'll be there at X, say hi to your friend for me.

She's putting up some boundaries which seem like friend zoning but it could be anti-slut defense too. My senses say friend zoning but I've been wrong before. Seems like you have your work cut out for you. Don't over-think text game though. Keep it organic, don't get too invested in outcomes. In fact, don't get invested in a woman at all until she's demonstrated she's worth investing. Keep it casual, keep it fun.

 

[redskinsfan92]

I don't do group dates. C***blocking happens

 

[MrJack]

Me: There are definitely people doing each other tonight! I'll be there at X, say hi to your friend for me.

She's putting up some boundaries which seem like friend zoning but it could be anti-slut defense too. My senses say friend zoning but I've been wrong before. Seems like you have your work cut out for you. Don't over-think text game though. Keep it organic, don't get too invested in outcomes. In fact, don't get invested in a woman at all until she's demonstrated she's worth investing. Keep it casual, keep it fun.

Very much appreciated dude. Sometimes I forget what you just told me.. she hasn’t demonstrated she’s worth investing yet.

May be trying to protect my ego but I think it’s the anti-slvt defense because we made out heavily when we first met and I went for sex but got LMR because people were right outside the door. She said “maybe next time” smiled and I acted unphased and got her number.

I’ve made it very clear I want to be sexual with her but I feel I may have come on too strong when first meeting hence why she’s throwing hoops at me to jump through.

...which I will NOT jump. Thanks again buddy.

 

[MrJack]

I don't do group dates. C***blocking happens

Yea I know you said that I’m my other post but unfortunately I’ve already done this too myself

 

[ohrein]

Very much appreciated dude. Sometimes I forget what you just told me.. she hasn’t demonstrated she’s worth investing yet.

May be trying to protect my ego but I think it’s the anti-slvt defense because we made out heavily when we first met and I went for sex but got LMR because people were right outside the door. She said “maybe next time” smiled and I acted unphased and got her number.

I’ve made it very clear I want to be sexual with her but I feel I may have come on too strong when first meeting hence why she’s throwing hoops at me to jump through.

...which I will NOT jump. Thanks again buddy.

Okay in which case just stay on track. Whatever you do, don't lose your cool. Keep it fun, casual and flirty. Take one step forward, two steps back if you get rejected while escalating.

 

[redskinsfan92]

Yea I know you said that I’m my other post but unfortunately I’ve already done this too myself

What's done is done. There's still a chance. And if not, on to the next one.

 

[MrJack]

Lmao @ohrein your response was straight gold...

Me: There are definitely people doing each other tonight! I’ll be there at 830, say hi to your friend for me

Her: Hahaha like who lol you’ll meet her I’m gunna bring her with I think!! But who knows she’s supposed to be meeting up with this guy she met at the bar last night. She knows (so and so) and i think she’s met (so and so) before too!! Okay wellll we will meet up right away. I’m actually so excited to see you (hearts)

 

[MrJack]

What's done is done. There's still a chance. And if not, on to the next one.

Heardddd that!

 

[MrJack]

It is 3:30 AM guys and although I’m tired as ****, I feel great. Didn’t even smash but I still just feel great about life right now because of the redpill and you guys. Can’t thank you all and this forum enough for everything I’ve been taught.

Got to the venue, and kept it casual and flirty between her and I. There were times where either one of us would leave and go talk to another “circle” of people within our actual social circle which was great. Back in the blue pill days I would’ve been needy and jealous but now I just could give two shyts!

The best part was that I out amog’d / out-personalityed my one friend that is notorious for amogging everyone.

HE was the one who greeted her when she first arrived (I actually didn’t even know she had walked up yet at that point because I was having fun talking to people lol), he also tried spitting a lot of game on her which I don’t think worked for him cuz in the end, once the venue was closing, it literally came down to 2 options for everyone...

Either go to my buddy’s parents house or go to my parents house lol (kinda childish and funny situation since we both have our own places but far away)... she ended up coming with me.

We got to my parents place and went in the hot tub. For about an hour we switched on and off between heavy making out and groping all over each other in the hot tub, to actually getting to know one another and just teasing and having a good time.

When it came time to seal the deal we went to my basement (took my bed from my room to my new place so couldn’t go there) and realized the people who came back with us were all sleeping in every single sleeping spot there was... lol which equals no sex again for me because there was literally nowhere else to go without either a friend or one of my parents waking up from the noise we would no doubt make.

It’s late af anyways and her parents were expecting her home at some point tonight so she just drove home.

She got home and sent me a text that she made it back and how she had fun tonight getting to know me with smileys.

Now, I definitely picked up on 1 or 2 subtle ques that makes me believe she wants to be my girlfriend in the future... lol we haven’t even fvcked yet!! It sounds ridiculous but just a couple things she said gave me that vibe and I feel like only specific type of shyt gives you that vibe.

Idk either way thanks guys, this is a great community and I can’t wait to transform even more than I already have.

 

[Murk]

Bro you ****ing did it! I'll admit your situation looked bleak when you made your original thread, glad to see you took my advice on the out personalitying him. Double glad that it worked. Shame you couldn't smash but by the sounds of it the writing is on the wall, well done.

 

[MrJack]

Bro you ****ing did it! I'll admit your situation looked bleak when you made your original thread, glad to see you took my advice on the out personalitying him. Double glad that it worked. Shame you couldn't smash but by the sounds of it the writing is on the wall, well done.

Ahh that was you! Lol I was too lazy to look back and give you cred. Appreciate you @Murkserious ! Next time I’m smashing forsure.

 

[Dingo]

These are the Threads I like to see...

Real work applications... Something where I can learn... Not all the whiney clutter.

 

[marmel75]

There is no need for funny responses to that. You are not a comedian. Choose a response that gets her to meet with you its the only one that matters.