"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Need quick advice, older chick?

bomb

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K so last week i was at this party met this hot chick we had a good time n we madeout near the end of the night, we kept it a secret though bc she doesnt want her girl freinds to know, n im also good freinds with them 2, i saw her last night again at a party n we talked forabit but wasnt like the week before, i want to try to move into a relationship with this chick but i dont know how to bring it about, maybe the reason she might not want to is bc im a year younger?, any help gettin passed the age dif, shes 18 im 17

thanks boys, any advice would be wicked
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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gav

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what rgeere said. her interest level isn't high enough in you.

you can't do anything about the 'age gap'. maybe she's just into older guys and would prefer to show them off to her gfs
 

Omega

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Oh yea she's REAL old :rolleyes: Treat her like you would a younger girl.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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