"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Need quick advice, older chick?

bomb

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K so last week i was at this party met this hot chick we had a good time n we madeout near the end of the night, we kept it a secret though bc she doesnt want her girl freinds to know, n im also good freinds with them 2, i saw her last night again at a party n we talked forabit but wasnt like the week before, i want to try to move into a relationship with this chick but i dont know how to bring it about, maybe the reason she might not want to is bc im a year younger?, any help gettin passed the age dif, shes 18 im 17

thanks boys, any advice would be wicked
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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gav

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what rgeere said. her interest level isn't high enough in you.

you can't do anything about the 'age gap'. maybe she's just into older guys and would prefer to show them off to her gfs
 

Omega

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Oh yea she's REAL old :rolleyes: Treat her like you would a younger girl.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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