Need professional help on this tricky approach - Calling on all DJ's

[TheGambino]

Just start up some small talk with her, let her know you have to be somewhere but would like continue this at another time.

See if she offers you her phone number after you say that. If she does its an indicator of high interest...if not it doesnt necessarily mean she isnt interested...follow it up with something like "Give me your number and we will set something up."

Don't overthink this...just act like talking to people like this is normal and no big deal. Because it is normal and really isnt a big deal.

I number closed over 500 times or more but This one is harder because shes working at the college Im a student and theres students and teachers everywhere. Friday ill close her for sure whenever I see her Im approaching

 

[RangerMIke]

Option 2: That is what I do... whatever it is that I find interesting about her that's what I lead with. Just today I met a woman in an elevator in one of the buildings a client of mine is in. I'd never met her before or even seen her, but she had nice hair. So I said..

"I think I've seen you before, but your hair was different... I really like the way it looks now, what's your name?"

Chicks are always fvcking with their hair, so it's a safe bet that sometime in the month she did something different. If she smiles and thanks you and give you her name... you are good. If she starts playing with her hair and asks for your name as well, go for a date. Otherwise ask for her number. Then go from there.

Good luck... however, a word of caution. You are definitely overthinking this chick WAY too much... you need to take action quick otherwise you could find yourself in an un-centered fixation.

 

[John Constantine]

Let's go brother, get it

 

[marmel75]

I number closed over 500 times or more but This one is harder because shes working at the college Im a student and theres students and teachers everywhere. Friday ill close her for sure whenever I see her Im approaching

No its not. You are simply making it harder by trying to reason that its somehow different than any other time. Its not. You are simply making it harder than it is.

 

[Macaframalama]

The Richard II disease. Don't do it to yourself bro.

 

[Urbanyst]

I number closed over 500 times or more but This one is harder because shes working at the college Im a student and theres students and teachers everywhere. Friday ill close her for sure whenever I see her Im approaching

You have been on this forum way too long to be this clueless lol.

Dude.. you sound 15.

 

[Tenacity]

You have been on this forum way too long to be this clueless lol.

Dude.. you sound 15.

Right. Like dude just start up a convo with her and then try to exchange numbers or even better......offer her to dinner or something similar at let's say some local event or networking event. That's really all there is to it as this is a numbers game.

And the student dating the teacher thing is only "gross" in high school.

 

[TheGambino]

Im at school today, looks like shes not working. She always passes the atrium, not today. Damn it I wanted to number close her because next week we have vacation and I know she will be availble.

Should I contact her on facebook?
im serious ...

something like: Hey noticed your cute smile at school haha, how are you? or wanna meet up for a drink?

Or just be patient wait a week or two to meet her at school again?

 

[foolyoufool]

Im at school today, looks like shes not working. She always passes the atrium, not today. Damn it I wanted to number close her because next week we have vacation and I know she will be availble.

Should I contact her on facebook?
im serious ...

something like: Hey noticed your cute smile at school haha, how are you? or wanna meet up for a drink?

Or just be patient wait a week or two to meet her at school again?

Just be patient and do it in person. It will be much better.

 

[TheGambino]

Update:

I talked to her.

Went something like this:

Me: Hey can I ask you a question?
Her: yeah sure
Me: What do You do here?
Her: duduududud and You?
Me: Nice I worked in a foreign country for two years now Im back to finish study
Her: Nice
Me: You always walk by with your cute smile but I never knew what you do here
Her: Hahahah okay..
her: you joined us once to a event right?
Me: nop You got the wrong Guy haha(def not me)
Me: so What do You like to do?
Her: travel, go out, go to the beach, Im a women so women things
Her: jeez What a questions lol
Me: I noticed You on the beach in x location once haha
Her: that’s possible
Me: Im sure with a wink
Me: Nice, since I never noticed You downtown I wanted to know where You go out
Her: yeah I dont go on regular saturdays only When theres something fun to do
Me: Aight sounds good
Me: Well see You around
Her: yeah goodluck on your study

She was a bit in a hurry, laughing and smiling but she wasnt leaning over or staying Kinda trying to go on her way I think..

So I couldnt ask for her number, she was too much pointing her body to the other side so I didnt go for the number close..

Not sure what to think but iT seemed like she Enjoyed the convo with the smiles All the way.

Edit: she walks by my table again when she left the building. I was getting a sandwich damnit... I was planning on asking her what her name is and her number when I saw her again but faith decided that I missed her.

Notice: She never leaves the building from this point im pretty sure she wanted to pass me again, I see it as interest.

Could I know reach out on befriend her and reach out on facebook message?

 

[amaterasu]

Update:

I talked to her.

Went something like this:

Me: Hey can I ask you a question?
Her: yeah sure
Me: What do You do here?
Her: duduududud and You?
Me: Nice I worked in a foreign country for two years now Im back to finish study
Her: Nice
Me: You always walk by with your cute smile but I never knew what you do here
Her: Hahahah okay..
her: you joined us once to a event right?
Me: nop You got the wrong Guy haha(def not me)
Me: so What do You like to do?
Her: travel, go out, go to the beach, Im a women so women things
Her: jeez What a questions lol
Me: I noticed You on the beach in x location once haha
Her: that’s possible
Me: Im sure with a wink
Me: Nice, since I never noticed You downtown I wanted to know where You go out
Her: yeah I dont go on regular saturdays only When theres something fun to do
Me: Aight sounds good
Me: Well see You around
Her: yeah goodluck on your study

She was a bit in a hurry, laughing and smiling but she wasnt leaning over or staying Kinda trying to go on her way I think..

So I couldnt ask for her number, she was too much pointing her body to the other side so I didnt go for the number close..

Not sure what to think but iT seemed like she Enjoyed the convo with the smiles All the way.

Edit: she walks by my table again when she left the building. I was getting a sandwich damnit... I was planning on asking her what her name is and her number when I saw her again but faith decided that I missed her.

Notice: She never leaves the building from this point im pretty sure she wanted to pass me again, I see it as interest.

Could I know reach out on befriend her and reach out on facebook message?

Do not do any Beta Facebook message or communication.

You started the conversation in person, you finish it in person.

After all the convo, you didn't ask her name? Am I right?

Good job on the convo, build it up from there. Don't rush things and let her feel that she has a value of an HB10.