"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You could eat off of my floor, though I don't reccomend it. Might die from some disease.
 

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But seriously, my room is clean, though if people are over, they would probaly be more likely to hang in the living room, as my room is freaking small.

But it is uber organized, because all my computer stuff, and other junk is in my closet.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well obvioiusly, clean it up, organize your workspace, get any food containers out, and any food, burn some candles to get a nice scent, maybe repaint the walls, clean the carpet, some nice sheets, and nice blankets, just mainly organize everything, and keep it that way.

I need to look at the pictures again. Ok, so you need to organize everything, and especially the clothing, sell stuff that you don't want to keep, organize some more, don't stop, clean the carpet, clean the walls, or cover them up with some posters, or something, just cover the space, make it smell nice, organize any loose cables you might have lying about, and you should be jet set.
 

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organize - k
clothes - need to put somewhere unmessed up
carpet - must clean room of all bs
walls - tape must die, might retouch crap spots, might look into suitable painting/poster to supplement a wall.
cables - big issue, needs to be addressed badly (speaker)
NEED DIMMERS
NEED COUCH

that's all..meh
 

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I just need a bigger room. Ab500, are you organized?
 

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Originally posted by 08aisaac
I just need a bigger room. Ab500, are you organized?
Depends on the day.. some days everythings all nice in alpha order and all that jazz but then other days I'll get some crazy project in my head and I devote my full attention to it at the expense of organization.

Doc, I think your first priovity would be getting a rather large trash bag and cleaning up the place.. poster is a good idea.

Curious:
http://docsster.com/IM000624.JPG

Is that a sideways chair in front of the car seats?

I'm gonna start wroking on stuff down here, I'll post back when I'm done in a few months.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I think that you need "areas"... Like section off a computor area, confine all computor related possesions to the computor area, have a "relax" area, chairs (*please please please not the crappy one- at least put a throw over that thing!*), TV, couch, etc- do you have a floor plan of where stuff is? Cause you can use couches and things to sort of cut a room in half...

STORAGE is a major issue here too- bookshelves, boxes, cabinets- anything to organise it all!

Also, pannelled walls only make it look dark, and make the room look smaller.


Ps. Does "changing rooms" air in the US?
 

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LOL i zoomed in on ur computer monitor and 75% of your desktop is covered with icons. Girls dont dig icons.
 

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what, mine?

even if not:
I'm really retarded for doing that, it's where I dump small zips of progs, text files, shortcuts, other small stuff.

At one point, I had the WHOLE screen covered, it was awesome.

I want windows to have list view for desktop..bastards.
 
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I'm rearranging stuff right now.. **** are desks heavy. I'm moving the couch in front of the TV unit and moving the TV unit where the folding table with the printers on it is, the desk and printers and all that computer stuff is going off into the other part of the basement that wasn't really pictured in my first post. I'll post pictures in a few hours when I get done.

My desktop has no icons on it, as shown here, but thats just personal preference: http://www.theabworld.com/mypad/ScreenShot026.jpg

Oh and a tip... never ever ever get cats as pets... I've been cleaning up after the damn things for the past hour.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I've been wanting to code my own version of the windows shell, this way...I don't need icons, I don't need a start menu and I don't get the crashing that explorer has.
 
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