Docs
Banned
oo, I'm wayyyyyyy ahead of you there bud, I clean it twice ^^.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Need opinions/ideas on a highschooler's pad
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Docs
Banned
we're all dying, what's the special today?
But seriously, my room is clean, though if people are over, they would probaly be more likely to hang in the living room, as my room is freaking small.
But it is uber organized, because all my computer stuff, and other junk is in my closet.
But it is uber organized, because all my computer stuff, and other junk is in my closet.
Docs
Banned
lol, back to my room......opinion?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Well obvioiusly, clean it up, organize your workspace, get any food containers out, and any food, burn some candles to get a nice scent, maybe repaint the walls, clean the carpet, some nice sheets, and nice blankets, just mainly organize everything, and keep it that way.
I need to look at the pictures again. Ok, so you need to organize everything, and especially the clothing, sell stuff that you don't want to keep, organize some more, don't stop, clean the carpet, clean the walls, or cover them up with some posters, or something, just cover the space, make it smell nice, organize any loose cables you might have lying about, and you should be jet set.
I need to look at the pictures again. Ok, so you need to organize everything, and especially the clothing, sell stuff that you don't want to keep, organize some more, don't stop, clean the carpet, clean the walls, or cover them up with some posters, or something, just cover the space, make it smell nice, organize any loose cables you might have lying about, and you should be jet set.
Docs
Banned
organize - k
clothes - need to put somewhere unmessed up
carpet - must clean room of all bs
walls - tape must die, might retouch crap spots, might look into suitable painting/poster to supplement a wall.
cables - big issue, needs to be addressed badly (speaker)
NEED DIMMERS
NEED COUCH
that's all..meh
clothes - need to put somewhere unmessed up
carpet - must clean room of all bs
walls - tape must die, might retouch crap spots, might look into suitable painting/poster to supplement a wall.
cables - big issue, needs to be addressed badly (speaker)
NEED DIMMERS
NEED COUCH
that's all..meh
Docs
Banned
ahaaha...i'm a slob:crackup:
Depends on the day.. some days everythings all nice in alpha order and all that jazz but then other days I'll get some crazy project in my head and I devote my full attention to it at the expense of organization.
Doc, I think your first priovity would be getting a rather large trash bag and cleaning up the place.. poster is a good idea.
Curious:
http://docsster.com/IM000624.JPG
Is that a sideways chair in front of the car seats?
I'm gonna start wroking on stuff down here, I'll post back when I'm done in a few months.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Docs
Banned
err..yes..that it is.
Told you it was a big sh!tpit.
Told you it was a big sh!tpit.
GirlInTheHat
Don Juan
I think that you need "areas"... Like section off a computor area, confine all computor related possesions to the computor area, have a "relax" area, chairs (*please please please not the crappy one- at least put a throw over that thing!*), TV, couch, etc- do you have a floor plan of where stuff is? Cause you can use couches and things to sort of cut a room in half...
STORAGE is a major issue here too- bookshelves, boxes, cabinets- anything to organise it all!
Also, pannelled walls only make it look dark, and make the room look smaller.
Ps. Does "changing rooms" air in the US?
STORAGE is a major issue here too- bookshelves, boxes, cabinets- anything to organise it all!
Also, pannelled walls only make it look dark, and make the room look smaller.
Ps. Does "changing rooms" air in the US?
Smooth Player 056
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LOL i zoomed in on ur computer monitor and 75% of your desktop is covered with icons. Girls dont dig icons.
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what, mine?
even if not:
I'm really retarded for doing that, it's where I dump small zips of progs, text files, shortcuts, other small stuff.
At one point, I had the WHOLE screen covered, it was awesome.
I want windows to have list view for desktop..bastards.
even if not:
I'm really retarded for doing that, it's where I dump small zips of progs, text files, shortcuts, other small stuff.
At one point, I had the WHOLE screen covered, it was awesome.
I want windows to have list view for desktop..bastards.
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I'm rearranging stuff right now.. **** are desks heavy. I'm moving the couch in front of the TV unit and moving the TV unit where the folding table with the printers on it is, the desk and printers and all that computer stuff is going off into the other part of the basement that wasn't really pictured in my first post. I'll post pictures in a few hours when I get done.
My desktop has no icons on it, as shown here, but thats just personal preference: http://www.theabworld.com/mypad/ScreenShot026.jpg
Oh and a tip... never ever ever get cats as pets... I've been cleaning up after the damn things for the past hour.
My desktop has no icons on it, as shown here, but thats just personal preference: http://www.theabworld.com/mypad/ScreenShot026.jpg
Oh and a tip... never ever ever get cats as pets... I've been cleaning up after the damn things for the past hour.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Docs
Banned
I've been wanting to code my own version of the windows shell, this way...I don't need icons, I don't need a start menu and I don't get the crashing that explorer has.