"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Also just so u know these approaches have had a huge effect me, i am generally going for more approaches naturally and in my opinion they r going pretty well. I also had some dude approach me yesterday saying "have i ever been lost in love" randomlly, now if he said that to anyone else they would of jus walked past, but i just started talking to him for like 10 minutes and actually took control of the convo has well lmao, so i think other people can c it 2.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Attempt 4 is happening on friday, but my wingman isn't coming, so looks like i am flying solo again, but i will get it. the thing i like about this is each attempt i do better than last one, so i can not regress on this one.

First attempt : 6, i know it sucks, but there there was a day i used to b suprised when i got 3.

Second attempt : 35, i finally came out of my shell and noticed my full potential, i lost a lot of fear that night and most my approaches were succesful.

Third attempt : 61, Here i did this against all odds, just to prove it can b done, no wing man, raining non stop, lost my wallet (that sucked) and the fact it was a tuesday = 1 man dancing in triangles on the dance floor in the club i went to. Despite all that i nearly doubled my second attempt.

Fourth attempt : Unknown till friday
 
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