"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Need opinion on my approaches

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Also just so u know these approaches have had a huge effect me, i am generally going for more approaches naturally and in my opinion they r going pretty well. I also had some dude approach me yesterday saying "have i ever been lost in love" randomlly, now if he said that to anyone else they would of jus walked past, but i just started talking to him for like 10 minutes and actually took control of the convo has well lmao, so i think other people can c it 2.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Attempt 4 is happening on friday, but my wingman isn't coming, so looks like i am flying solo again, but i will get it. the thing i like about this is each attempt i do better than last one, so i can not regress on this one.

First attempt : 6, i know it sucks, but there there was a day i used to b suprised when i got 3.

Second attempt : 35, i finally came out of my shell and noticed my full potential, i lost a lot of fear that night and most my approaches were succesful.

Third attempt : 61, Here i did this against all odds, just to prove it can b done, no wing man, raining non stop, lost my wallet (that sucked) and the fact it was a tuesday = 1 man dancing in triangles on the dance floor in the club i went to. Despite all that i nearly doubled my second attempt.

Fourth attempt : Unknown till friday
 
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