"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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armybyrd

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Ive been on this site for a few years though its been awhile and I forgot my old info so now Ive got a new account.
Anyways me and my current gf are both in the military and have know each other for about 2-3 years, though we've only been a couple for a few months.
Well tomorrow she comes back from a 6 month deployment and Im in town for a few weeks before I leave for a tour in Korea. I was thinking about wearing my dress uniform and bringing flowers(not sure what kind to get tho) for when I meet her as soon as they all get back and she gets off the plane.
So my question is do you guys think the dress uniform will be too much or? Its an USAF base but I switched to the Army so Im definitely going to stand out tho it may be in a good way. Input on the uniform and what kind of flowers to get would be greatly appreciated.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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piranha45

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You say you've been here for a while, but based off this post I'm wondering if you've learned anything. Asking about what type of flowers are best to get her just sends out emergency klaxons. Don't ever try to justify yourself to her, this includes getting her gifts.

Don't buy flowers/gifts, don't dress ritzy, and don't let her know that you appreciate her/love her/have missed her so much this past few weeks (or however long), or anything of the sort. Have fun conversation and dinner and then bang her great. Don't get too emotionally attached or needy, and be damn sure you don't display that sort of behavior to her.

Don't even try for a long-distance relationship, do her for the few weeks you're here and then forget about her, because no doubt she'll find someone else when you're gone, regardless of whether you do or not.
 

joedmango

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no comment on what to wear and to flowers to give, the only thing is, are ready to enter in a long distance relationship? If you are, then go with plan wear best dress uniform and stay faithful during your entire relationship without on her side.
 
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