Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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armybyrd

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Ive been on this site for a few years though its been awhile and I forgot my old info so now Ive got a new account.
Anyways me and my current gf are both in the military and have know each other for about 2-3 years, though we've only been a couple for a few months.
Well tomorrow she comes back from a 6 month deployment and Im in town for a few weeks before I leave for a tour in Korea. I was thinking about wearing my dress uniform and bringing flowers(not sure what kind to get tho) for when I meet her as soon as they all get back and she gets off the plane.
So my question is do you guys think the dress uniform will be too much or? Its an USAF base but I switched to the Army so Im definitely going to stand out tho it may be in a good way. Input on the uniform and what kind of flowers to get would be greatly appreciated.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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piranha45

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You say you've been here for a while, but based off this post I'm wondering if you've learned anything. Asking about what type of flowers are best to get her just sends out emergency klaxons. Don't ever try to justify yourself to her, this includes getting her gifts.

Don't buy flowers/gifts, don't dress ritzy, and don't let her know that you appreciate her/love her/have missed her so much this past few weeks (or however long), or anything of the sort. Have fun conversation and dinner and then bang her great. Don't get too emotionally attached or needy, and be damn sure you don't display that sort of behavior to her.

Don't even try for a long-distance relationship, do her for the few weeks you're here and then forget about her, because no doubt she'll find someone else when you're gone, regardless of whether you do or not.
 

joedmango

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no comment on what to wear and to flowers to give, the only thing is, are ready to enter in a long distance relationship? If you are, then go with plan wear best dress uniform and stay faithful during your entire relationship without on her side.
 
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