"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Need insight on this.

Anchorman

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Well, there is a girl who has recently broke up with her bf. We'll call her X. She told me she had a crush on me and so did a bunch of her friends, but she had a bf, so I didnt want to get involved anyway.

2 weeks later, they broke up. Yesterday, she was literally begging me to **** her. We were talking on the phone that is... No problem there.

The problem is, that her brother is an acquaintance of mine, lets call him Y. BUT he is good friends with my good friends from school. We sometimes talk and we hang out with the same group of people at school. Y gets really pissed when people talk about his sister in front of him. X's ex bf was one of Y's closest friends and he ended up going out with X. It really ****ed up their Y's friendship with him. Y wanted to kick his ass. But then later, they became friends again.

On Y's personality: He is very insecure. Tries to start fights with people alot. Does stupid **** just to be funny.

I would not want a relationship with this girl, maybe keep her as a fvck buddy but no more. If I was to hook up with X, I would not tell anyone because I'd respect her privacy. But she would tell her good friends. I think they would keep it quiet, but the word eventually spreads.

When I talked to X, she said that Y wouldnt really care since I am not a close friend. But it might effect my relationship with my other friends from our group, who I would like to keep as my friends. Also, all the friends of the group know that X likes me but they all advise me against going for her because of Y.

The brother, Y, is graduating this year. I doubt I am going to keep contact with him after he finishes HS.

Ive given as much insight as I can. Any suggestions on what I can do?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LikRetsam

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You call this a "situation" ?
 

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I am simply looking for a bit of advice on what I CAN do. My actions will be decided by me.

Lik, what would you do?
 

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wait till summer, and bone her senseless.
Or put her on the back-burner until the brother is GONE.
Don't hookup with girls whose older brothers are your friends and WILL find out about it. its a bad idea.
 
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