"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Anchorman

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Well, there is a girl who has recently broke up with her bf. We'll call her X. She told me she had a crush on me and so did a bunch of her friends, but she had a bf, so I didnt want to get involved anyway.

2 weeks later, they broke up. Yesterday, she was literally begging me to **** her. We were talking on the phone that is... No problem there.

The problem is, that her brother is an acquaintance of mine, lets call him Y. BUT he is good friends with my good friends from school. We sometimes talk and we hang out with the same group of people at school. Y gets really pissed when people talk about his sister in front of him. X's ex bf was one of Y's closest friends and he ended up going out with X. It really ****ed up their Y's friendship with him. Y wanted to kick his ass. But then later, they became friends again.

On Y's personality: He is very insecure. Tries to start fights with people alot. Does stupid **** just to be funny.

I would not want a relationship with this girl, maybe keep her as a fvck buddy but no more. If I was to hook up with X, I would not tell anyone because I'd respect her privacy. But she would tell her good friends. I think they would keep it quiet, but the word eventually spreads.

When I talked to X, she said that Y wouldnt really care since I am not a close friend. But it might effect my relationship with my other friends from our group, who I would like to keep as my friends. Also, all the friends of the group know that X likes me but they all advise me against going for her because of Y.

The brother, Y, is graduating this year. I doubt I am going to keep contact with him after he finishes HS.

Ive given as much insight as I can. Any suggestions on what I can do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LikRetsam

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You call this a "situation" ?
 

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I am simply looking for a bit of advice on what I CAN do. My actions will be decided by me.

Lik, what would you do?
 

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wait till summer, and bone her senseless.
Or put her on the back-burner until the brother is GONE.
Don't hookup with girls whose older brothers are your friends and WILL find out about it. its a bad idea.
 
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