An hb that I work with we casually flirt and have fun together.(no sex) the flirting as always been sexual and direct so they was no mistake. Anyway she did something nice for me so I wanted to take her out so I asked she was free. She responded with that she had a lot of hours this week and shes too busy to date. I responded with k let me know when you do have time and ended right there and walk away. I just need input or insight from other about if the situation was handled well and an honest outlook about what might happen. Btw it been 2 week since it happen but it I haven't mentioned it at all because I don't want to seem desperate
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Need input from the veterans of sosuave
- Thread starter Pondering
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Yeah, let it go. You don't need a workplace romance.
But just for fun, the next time a woman says she's "shes too busy to date," act like you don't know what the D word means.
Too busy to what? date? what is that?.......ohhhh you mean like people used to do a long time ago.
But just for fun, the next time a woman says she's "shes too busy to date," act like you don't know what the D word means.
Too busy to what? date? what is that?.......ohhhh you mean like people used to do a long time ago.