An hb that I work with we casually flirt and have fun together.(no sex) the flirting as always been sexual and direct so they was no mistake. Anyway she did something nice for me so I wanted to take her out so I asked she was free. She responded with that she had a lot of hours this week and shes too busy to date. I responded with k let me know when you do have time and ended right there and walk away. I just need input or insight from other about if the situation was handled well and an honest outlook about what might happen. Btw it been 2 week since it happen but it I haven't mentioned it at all because I don't want to seem desperate
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Need input from the veterans of sosuave
- Thread starter Pondering
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Yeah, let it go. You don't need a workplace romance.
But just for fun, the next time a woman says she's "shes too busy to date," act like you don't know what the D word means.
Too busy to what? date? what is that?.......ohhhh you mean like people used to do a long time ago.
But just for fun, the next time a woman says she's "shes too busy to date," act like you don't know what the D word means.
Too busy to what? date? what is that?.......ohhhh you mean like people used to do a long time ago.