"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LikeDat292

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Hey this weekend i'm going to a camp. This girl that i've known for about a year is also going. I like this girl and i know for a fact that she used to like me but we haven't seen each other that much recently and i don't know now. There will probably be a lot of people at this camp. Does anyone have any ideas of something that i can do to see if she still likes me or get her to like me?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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idiot_boyfriend

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I'm not sure if you can "get her to like you", but you sure as hell can keep her interest level high and check what her interest level really is. You can tell her interest level from all the little things you read from SoSuave....you know, eye contact, reaction to kino, etc.

To keep her interest level high, just remember that you're the one on the pedestal, and that she has to compete for you. Women always want what they can't have. By the way, this concept was completely foreign to me when I first came to this site....




I'm guessing you can't really go out on a date in camp, but be sure to stay in contact with her afterwards. If you do stay in contact, remember not to do that "calling everyday" bullshìt.

Good luck.
 

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Remeber, a true DJ doesn't wonder "if she likes me", but rather asks "if I like her". Since you do, there's nothing else to worry about.
 

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You need ideas?

Talk to her.

Yes, I did get up and take a walk before replying to keep my cool.
 

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Originally posted by skinnydart
Remeber, a true DJ doesn't wonder "if she likes me", but rather asks "if I like her". Since you do, there's nothing else to worry about.
Exactly, this is the second time I've quoted you today skinnydart. :p

Don't wonder if she likes you or not. Just ask yourself "If I like her" like skinnydart said.

You're probably already at camp....but if you're not. I wish you the best of luck man.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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