"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Senor Steel

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First of all, i'm new to being a pickup artist. I only found out about this about a week ago. Anyway, I need some suggestions on where to go to practice my pick up artist skills. I especially need advice on where to go on a Saturday night, by myself. I'd rather go by myself then with my friends because they are not the type that would enjoy/try being a pickup artist. In fact, most of them are AFC's. Anyways, please post some ideas

EDIT: I live in Tempe AZ if that helps any
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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firstly a DJ is not a pick up artist thats the wrong frame of mind, as for where to approch girls, well you could do this in bars or clubs (do not aproch girls in dark areas at night, you will only scare them) basicly you can just go up and apprch them in the middle of town or near your house, at the park anywhere you like!
 

-HPNOTIQ-

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A fella on this forum named Eric Live who posts a lot in the Mature Man forum is from Arizona. Try Private Msg him.

Welcome to the boards...
 

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let me re-emphasize for effect. a DJ is not the same as being a PUA. since you cant even differentiate the two terms, i reckon you havent acquired/dont have the skills as of yet to try to do formal pickups. go read some more articles from the bible about pickup ideas and places. this has been covered upteen times before.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Senor Steel

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Its not the same but both use the same terminology? Both accomplish the same goal? hmmmmm
 

Sart

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NO!!!

A pick up artist can be a gay pick up artist or an AFC with cute looks who gets one nighters. A DJ is masculine, he pursues what he wants, not just women, in so doing he doesn't really need to pick em up, they will come to him. They will be attracted to him because strength, power and confident are brilliant at getting women all gooey in the fork. A PUA can be a $25K per annum pump man, a DJ probably has game at work, game at home, game at his interests, and this game equates to success with women....if he is in the mood.

I am not quite yet there, but am getting there pretty quickly, give me a year MAX and I will be a strong playa/DJ or whatever term you want to use.
 

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thanks for saving my fingers Sart. and 4 posts does not mean you know all your terminology and jargon.
 

Sart

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you or me

We were online at the same time their jakeyboy, you saved me a couple of posts as well, so consider it a mate doing a mate a favour.

As for 4 posts, it is also clear that he didn't read or study any literature before posting, but I guess he had to start smewhere.
 

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alright. but still reckoned he shouldnt have claimed that PUAs and DJs have the same terminology and accomplish the same goals. i dont think i was that confident after my first 4 posts. oh well. give him the benefit of the doubt. perhaps he read the wrong articles.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Woah woah, please don't attack me where it hurts, my 4 posts. Anyways, I'm here to learn, not to be attacked by insecure guys like you jakeboy.
 

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Guys, shut up with the PUA vs DJ stuff. Jesus. :rolleyes:

We're all after the same damned thing...our masculinity. Enough of this divisive attitude. If you think his question would be better suited to another forum, then LEAD him there. Don't b!tch and moan about DJs versus PUAs like you're trying to say one's better than the other.

Steel, if you want to learn true "PUA tactics", then you should check out www.fastseduction.com and the "Fast Seduction 1010 Player Guide" on there. That'll get you started. The DJ Bible is much more philsophical and although there's a lot of excellent material in it, it's easy to get so wrapped up in THINKING that you forget to DO.

As far as who's in your area, we have a "Wingman Forum" on this site that you could post on. Regarding WHERE, just go anywhere where pretty girls are likely to be. This can be a club/bar/lounge, the mall, school, ANYWHERE. Pick-ups don't HAVE to be confined to a certain setting.
 

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Originally posted by Senor Steel
Woah woah, please don't attack me where it hurts, my 4 posts. Anyways, I'm here to learn, not to be attacked by insecure guys like you jakeboy.
wow. no hard feelings man. you ddint have to jump out and attack me like that. just my opinion.
 
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