"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alrite guys, I started dating this girl. She was absolutly perfect, obsessed with me and everything. Then BOOM! She exploded on me, found out she has a ****ed up family life, starts doing all these little things to get under my skin, tries to limit the amount of sex she gives me, sometimes she won't even kiss me on the lips, talks about her guy friends constantly now, and pisses me off.

The problem? We're going to Prom together tomorrow.

I want out of this ****. I'm not very experienced at this, I've read up on some articles about how you just "NEXT" her, but this girl is a high maintenance, and has extreme baggage. Do I dump her the next day after prom? Or do I find a replacement first then dump her?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ditch the biatch... if you know you are done with a girl (and rightfully so in your case), delaying breaking things off will will make it harder for you to do. You will start questioning everything, and end up miserably staying with her far longer than you ever should have. Get it over with, and dump her ASAP. There is NO good way to break up with someone, it always sucks, so just be a man and do it!
 
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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
Dump her the next day after Prom. She sounds like she deserves it.

She will proably disrespect you on Prom too.

If you can get another date before Prom then dump her before Prom.
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SG you're from Naperville?! that's tight as hell. I'm from Wheaton.

No I won't dump her until after prom, unless she does something totally disrespectful at prom.
 
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