"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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cyjay201

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Alrite guys, I started dating this girl. She was absolutly perfect, obsessed with me and everything. Then BOOM! She exploded on me, found out she has a ****ed up family life, starts doing all these little things to get under my skin, tries to limit the amount of sex she gives me, sometimes she won't even kiss me on the lips, talks about her guy friends constantly now, and pisses me off.

The problem? We're going to Prom together tomorrow.

I want out of this ****. I'm not very experienced at this, I've read up on some articles about how you just "NEXT" her, but this girl is a high maintenance, and has extreme baggage. Do I dump her the next day after prom? Or do I find a replacement first then dump her?

Thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ditch the biatch... if you know you are done with a girl (and rightfully so in your case), delaying breaking things off will will make it harder for you to do. You will start questioning everything, and end up miserably staying with her far longer than you ever should have. Get it over with, and dump her ASAP. There is NO good way to break up with someone, it always sucks, so just be a man and do it!
 

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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
Dump her the next day after Prom. She sounds like she deserves it.

She will proably disrespect you on Prom too.

If you can get another date before Prom then dump her before Prom.
SG you're from Naperville?! that's tight as hell. I'm from Wheaton.

No I won't dump her until after prom, unless she does something totally disrespectful at prom.
 
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