"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Need help

Runi_86

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 8, 2004
Messages
10
Reaction score
0
Age
40
Location
Faroe Islands
Im drunk right now.. so i dont know if i make any sence right now.. but i'll try.. because i really need some help here

there is a girl that I really like.. and she likes me too .. we have been flirting a lot but haven't done anything yet.. Lets just call her my gf .. but then there is another girl that likes me .. and I made out with her tonight .. and my gf asked if it was true.. because a friend of mine told her .. and I said no .. Dont know why I said it .. but I dont even know why I did this !! I told the other girl that i couldn't do it because i have a gf .. but then it just happened.. im really sad right now .. dont know what to do ..

I really like the other girl .. i think i love her .. and she has feelings for me too .. i dont want this to ruin everything.. should I tell her the truth tomorrow? I have thought about telling her that I will stop drinking and all that.. because she is everything I need.. and I dont want to hurt her ever again .. I love her

need some help plz
thanks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Runi_86

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 8, 2004
Messages
10
Reaction score
0
Age
40
Location
Faroe Islands
soon to be yes .. and i really dont care about all this don juan crap at the moment .. I love her
 
Joined
Nov 6, 2003
Messages
4,280
Reaction score
8
Location
Wisconsin. USA
Hey drunk bastard, Keep your mouth shut and don't spill your guts in a panic!! Are you in a commited relationship with the one you love??
 
Joined
Nov 6, 2003
Messages
4,280
Reaction score
8
Location
Wisconsin. USA
Originally posted by Runi_86
soon to be yes .. and i really dont care about all this don juan crap at the moment .. I love her
Runi, you are drunk and 17 years old - do you know what "love" is????:rolleyes:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Runi_86

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 8, 2004
Messages
10
Reaction score
0
Age
40
Location
Faroe Islands
im 19 in april .. i need some helpful replies please
 

Runi_86

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 8, 2004
Messages
10
Reaction score
0
Age
40
Location
Faroe Islands
i know.. but its a long story.. we like each other and agreed not to get someone else.. and she got sad today
 
Top