"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So on Saturday I ended up at this club where I ran into girls from my school.
2 girls are important. Let's call one C and the other one N.
Last summer I ended up with C couple of times (just kissing, nothing much) but after that I blowed her off because I just didn't want to be with that kind of person again.
So here's the deal: N likes me, I know that for sure, and I like her too. At that club we talked a lot and she said that she can't get with me because I was already with C and she „doesn't want to that“ to her friend. Later she said that we should meet on Tuesday for a coffee or something. But I don't know whether I should send her a message or what.. I am totally out of my mind since yesterday.

What do you think I should do?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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They like high value dudes. And also, this can work out for you in nice ways if you let it happen. See how goes bro.
 
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Sent her a text last night. She said that she doesn't feel well, but if she would go to school we would see each other and arrange something. I didn't see her but my friend said he did. Don't know what to do... Guessing if she is really that into me she will text me tonight but I don't think that will happen. Any advice?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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well try to meet her at your school and say she should hang out with you after school to any palce you think will be nice, and cheap, and try to move things.

from what I know woman don't care about her friends feelings as long the guy can take the lead, the number of cases the best friend sleep with the ex BF or even the current BF is not low, so maybe she saying she don't want to hurt her friend is just a nice way to turn you down?
 
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Yeah try to meet her at school and then ask her to hang out. What did you text her?
 
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@pabloDJ It's not really easy to ask her at school because she hangs out with C all the time. Texted her an invite for coffee after school.

@Alvafe Thought of that, but how can I really know, right?
 
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jake23 said:
@pabloDJ It's not really easy to ask her at school because she hangs out with C all the time. Texted her an invite for coffee after school.

@Alvafe Thought of that, but how can I really know, right?
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Ask her out if she give you bs excuses then you know.

If you see her in a club again, try to isolate her and go for it.
 
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