"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So on Saturday I ended up at this club where I ran into girls from my school.
2 girls are important. Let's call one C and the other one N.
Last summer I ended up with C couple of times (just kissing, nothing much) but after that I blowed her off because I just didn't want to be with that kind of person again.
So here's the deal: N likes me, I know that for sure, and I like her too. At that club we talked a lot and she said that she can't get with me because I was already with C and she „doesn't want to that“ to her friend. Later she said that we should meet on Tuesday for a coffee or something. But I don't know whether I should send her a message or what.. I am totally out of my mind since yesterday.

What do you think I should do?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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They like high value dudes. And also, this can work out for you in nice ways if you let it happen. See how goes bro.
 
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Sent her a text last night. She said that she doesn't feel well, but if she would go to school we would see each other and arrange something. I didn't see her but my friend said he did. Don't know what to do... Guessing if she is really that into me she will text me tonight but I don't think that will happen. Any advice?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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well try to meet her at your school and say she should hang out with you after school to any palce you think will be nice, and cheap, and try to move things.

from what I know woman don't care about her friends feelings as long the guy can take the lead, the number of cases the best friend sleep with the ex BF or even the current BF is not low, so maybe she saying she don't want to hurt her friend is just a nice way to turn you down?
 
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Yeah try to meet her at school and then ask her to hang out. What did you text her?
 
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@pabloDJ It's not really easy to ask her at school because she hangs out with C all the time. Texted her an invite for coffee after school.

@Alvafe Thought of that, but how can I really know, right?
 
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jake23 said:
@pabloDJ It's not really easy to ask her at school because she hangs out with C all the time. Texted her an invite for coffee after school.

@Alvafe Thought of that, but how can I really know, right?
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Ask her out if she give you bs excuses then you know.

If you see her in a club again, try to isolate her and go for it.
 
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