"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Zenboy93

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Hey guys I'm new around here and I need help 'cause my situation is getting a bit awkward...
Well as you see first I'm in highschool and there is this girl who caught my interest a while ago, we've been chatting throught bbm and I managed to get her phone number, I flirted with her but lightly (Yes I'm a bit shy but I'm practicing to overcome it).

I decided to try out and Invite her to have a drink with me at a cool place and she declined because she already had plans that day (I called her on the phone btw). I waited a bit so it can cool off and tried again but this time I called and when I jokingly said :" Now about that drink we had to take" She said :"Oh yeah I'm really sorry but last time I already planned some stuff with my friends" I said it was ok and told her that she'll decide when we will meet up she said she'll tell me the next day.

Now the next day she came to me and told me she couldnt 'cause the W-E she had a trip with her family (Which is true) and told me :" It's ok after all we have the whole month to set up something" but after that reply I kept the conversation flowing so it doesn't show her I'm needy or something like that.

I just wanted your opinions about what to do in this situation, and if you need anymore info just ask.

Thanks guys !
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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NorwegianDJ

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Nothing seems wrong here, keep on going! :D
Just talk to her and stuff. Offer to meet up and that stuff.
Just remember the general stuff. Chilled out, confidence, kino, blahblah, display intrest. yeah
..Thats a lot of stuff.
 

Zenboy93

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Haha ok glad everything is going on well :D And to answer the question no I haven't 'cause I rarely got the chance to do since she's always around her friends but now it's summer vacation so it might be hard since we don't have class at all haha.

Anyways thanks for the inputs guys and if anything new happens I'll update !
 
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