"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Zenboy93

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Hey guys I'm new around here and I need help 'cause my situation is getting a bit awkward...
Well as you see first I'm in highschool and there is this girl who caught my interest a while ago, we've been chatting throught bbm and I managed to get her phone number, I flirted with her but lightly (Yes I'm a bit shy but I'm practicing to overcome it).

I decided to try out and Invite her to have a drink with me at a cool place and she declined because she already had plans that day (I called her on the phone btw). I waited a bit so it can cool off and tried again but this time I called and when I jokingly said :" Now about that drink we had to take" She said :"Oh yeah I'm really sorry but last time I already planned some stuff with my friends" I said it was ok and told her that she'll decide when we will meet up she said she'll tell me the next day.

Now the next day she came to me and told me she couldnt 'cause the W-E she had a trip with her family (Which is true) and told me :" It's ok after all we have the whole month to set up something" but after that reply I kept the conversation flowing so it doesn't show her I'm needy or something like that.

I just wanted your opinions about what to do in this situation, and if you need anymore info just ask.

Thanks guys !
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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NorwegianDJ

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Nothing seems wrong here, keep on going! :D
Just talk to her and stuff. Offer to meet up and that stuff.
Just remember the general stuff. Chilled out, confidence, kino, blahblah, display intrest. yeah
..Thats a lot of stuff.
 

Zenboy93

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Haha ok glad everything is going on well :D And to answer the question no I haven't 'cause I rarely got the chance to do since she's always around her friends but now it's summer vacation so it might be hard since we don't have class at all haha.

Anyways thanks for the inputs guys and if anything new happens I'll update !
 
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