"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Alright this is my first post even though I've been looking around the forums for some time now. Ok so im posting to talk about where I'm at and to take some advice.
So my first period is basketball and we're usually in the gym with all of the other P.E. classes and up until now i havent really tried to talk to any of the girls in there. Well today, this group of people were tossin around a volleyball and it kept getting in the way of our game. So after about he 20th time of having to stop to pick up their volleyball, i noticed this pretty cute freshman standing with them. She walked up to me to get the volleyball back and i said (in a kinda sarcastic tone) "if you keep messing up our game, then we're gonna have some problems." while smiling the whole time. She grabbed the ball from me with a smile from ear to ear. After that i kinda stopped paying attention to them and finished up my game. Before i walked out the gym i air balled a shot and she said
"nice" sarcastically w/ a smile and walked away.

Anyway at this point i could tell she was interested despite me not really doing anything. Later that day i saw her walking down the hall and i flashed her a smile and she returned the favor.

She seems like a really cool girl and I'd like to know what you guys think i should do in this kind of situation.

Sorry about the long post but I'd really appreciate the help from you more experienced DJs."


(i posted this in the high school forum but i figured i'd get more help here. So please post your thoughts)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Are you really familiar with this site???

Go talk to her, u chump! And then get the number.

Dont worry about the possibility of rejection, experience is a wonderful teacher. The worst that will happen is you learn a little something new.



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Firstly find her. You probably wouldn't want to open her within a large group (you will eventually), so either wait for her to be isolated, or isolate her yourself (subtley; call her over, catch her going to class, etc). I would then build rapport from her volleyball game thing - Neg hit her on it. Offer to teach her how to play (JOKINGLY, since your a big shot b-baller with your awsome air-ball, lol).
From here I would assume the volleyball digging position and rub against her a little as you thrust up and down, jokingly (its all in the legs by the way - the arms should stay pretty much stationary, this gives more control). THEN GET THE NUMBER!!!!!!!!!!

Simple, you approach no matter what. Never ever ask again whether you should make a move, just make a move!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The point of my post was for you to realize there is no uber one liner to rule them all. It doesn't matter how you open, she likes you, she will listen to what you have to say, you can just go up to her and say "Hi" and she will reply back, and you can have a conversation with her...

...from that conversation you may learn a thing or two, like what her name is... hell, you might even get her number.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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