"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Need help

B

BJJkid

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 30, 2007
Messages
14
Reaction score
0
Location
Broward, South Florida
"Alright this is my first post even though I've been looking around the forums for some time now. Ok so im posting to talk about where I'm at and to take some advice.
So my first period is basketball and we're usually in the gym with all of the other P.E. classes and up until now i havent really tried to talk to any of the girls in there. Well today, this group of people were tossin around a volleyball and it kept getting in the way of our game. So after about he 20th time of having to stop to pick up their volleyball, i noticed this pretty cute freshman standing with them. She walked up to me to get the volleyball back and i said (in a kinda sarcastic tone) "if you keep messing up our game, then we're gonna have some problems." while smiling the whole time. She grabbed the ball from me with a smile from ear to ear. After that i kinda stopped paying attention to them and finished up my game. Before i walked out the gym i air balled a shot and she said
"nice" sarcastically w/ a smile and walked away.

Anyway at this point i could tell she was interested despite me not really doing anything. Later that day i saw her walking down the hall and i flashed her a smile and she returned the favor.

She seems like a really cool girl and I'd like to know what you guys think i should do in this kind of situation.

Sorry about the long post but I'd really appreciate the help from you more experienced DJs."


(i posted this in the high school forum but i figured i'd get more help here. So please post your thoughts)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

S

sam3083

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 10, 2007
Messages
232
Reaction score
2
Are you really familiar with this site???

Go talk to her, u chump! And then get the number.

Dont worry about the possibility of rejection, experience is a wonderful teacher. The worst that will happen is you learn a little something new.



Need more?
Firstly find her. You probably wouldn't want to open her within a large group (you will eventually), so either wait for her to be isolated, or isolate her yourself (subtley; call her over, catch her going to class, etc). I would then build rapport from her volleyball game thing - Neg hit her on it. Offer to teach her how to play (JOKINGLY, since your a big shot b-baller with your awsome air-ball, lol).
From here I would assume the volleyball digging position and rub against her a little as you thrust up and down, jokingly (its all in the legs by the way - the arms should stay pretty much stationary, this gives more control). THEN GET THE NUMBER!!!!!!!!!!

Simple, you approach no matter what. Never ever ask again whether you should make a move, just make a move!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

O

Ostepop

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 4, 2007
Messages
79
Reaction score
0
The point of my post was for you to realize there is no uber one liner to rule them all. It doesn't matter how you open, she likes you, she will listen to what you have to say, you can just go up to her and say "Hi" and she will reply back, and you can have a conversation with her...

...from that conversation you may learn a thing or two, like what her name is... hell, you might even get her number.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top