"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Need help with what to wear

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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B4IFURU18? said:
-Whoever said to tuck your shirt into your pants to show off your belt buckle, lol no. Don't do this, you don't see anyone in GQ or Vogue doing this, chances are because it's a huge fashion no no. Pick up a copy of GQ, that should get the ball rolling.
Please explain this. Why is this a big no,no.

You dont tuck your shirt in to show your belt buckle you tuck it in to have a neat appearance.

IMO...... People who have their shirt hanging out look sloppy....... period. But your age I can maybe understand. If you want to look more neat and sharp tuck that shirt in you will be a little different from your friends. The women will notice.
 

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Thanks guys i am taking everythink u tell me in and looking at the stuff u r suggestion has well. This is helpful because well i have pretty much lived my life on crappy clothing and don't know nothing. Anyway i went in a store today to try some jeans and everythink, i tried on some jeans and i found some kool t shirts that have kinda neat graphic design on shirts. Think i should explore more though. its a step up from stuff i wore before and i look more maturer and better, but i think i can make myself look a bit better. i will have a look at some more stores and anymore advice from u guys is well appreciated
 
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