"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Need help with what to wear

zerocelcius

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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B4IFURU18? said:
-Whoever said to tuck your shirt into your pants to show off your belt buckle, lol no. Don't do this, you don't see anyone in GQ or Vogue doing this, chances are because it's a huge fashion no no. Pick up a copy of GQ, that should get the ball rolling.
Please explain this. Why is this a big no,no.

You dont tuck your shirt in to show your belt buckle you tuck it in to have a neat appearance.

IMO...... People who have their shirt hanging out look sloppy....... period. But your age I can maybe understand. If you want to look more neat and sharp tuck that shirt in you will be a little different from your friends. The women will notice.
 

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Thanks guys i am taking everythink u tell me in and looking at the stuff u r suggestion has well. This is helpful because well i have pretty much lived my life on crappy clothing and don't know nothing. Anyway i went in a store today to try some jeans and everythink, i tried on some jeans and i found some kool t shirts that have kinda neat graphic design on shirts. Think i should explore more though. its a step up from stuff i wore before and i look more maturer and better, but i think i can make myself look a bit better. i will have a look at some more stores and anymore advice from u guys is well appreciated
 
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