"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Need help with transition

rushing dude 123

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I have lately reflected on my approaches and reading a few back from the past and i feel the main thing that is harming my game and closes is transition, seeing near enough all the approaches i did was keeping on same subject it started with. Now i am pretty confident with my openers and then the bit that follows my opener, but i was noticing especially at work approaches that i have to some how change subject with in context preferablly ( and not going to comfort). Seeing quite a lot of u guys have maybe had the same problem in the past and r probablly good with it now, i was wondering if u cud giv me some advice or some tips that may of helped u.

Thanks

ps. going to go through djb with it has well
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Transitioning is not a step by step progress, it is a natural flow. Change the subject whatever you want, be as random as you want, who cares? The way I generate attraction is not with fancy lines or tricks, its always being generated by the way I present myself. Deep down, I'm very charming, fun, and just awesome to be around with. This is who I'am, I'm dont have to think about what to do next, my actions comes from deep within my core.

The best way to close, is think to yourself, Is this a girl I want to hang out with in the future? If yes, then go for the close. Its really that simple, you don't need some fancy line. I just say "Yo, gimme your #." And they give me it, I usually tell them to punch it in, and they do. Don't be the guy who has fun with a lot of girls, and don't close. The girls want you to close, your a cool guy, and they wanna hook up with you in the future. So go out and do them that favor. Good luck.
 

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After the opener .. a powerful thing that you must do is body rocking.
Then as a transition, I use "best friend test" or "how do you guys know each other". This can be used as DHV also.
 

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Yeh ur right evolution, i usually do not close has much has i would like , but i am working on it. I am working on direct game, but i am also working on indirect game, the transition is for the indirect game. I think its pretty helpful to have seeing a girl is more likely to remember u if u mixed things up a bit and gives u more information to pick out on her on the phone call. I understand it flows naturally to dude and it has been working for me, but so far i need to start off with some simple things to slowly move myself in more naturally in this area. I learnt paying attention to the convo helps a lot lmao. I will try ur random things though, like maybe a random observation and maybe some how link it into context.

Yeh macking my friend told me everything u exactlly said and i have seen him do the routine. I wasn't thinking it could be for me, but ur right it should definetly make it a lot easier for me.

i aint trying to make this complicated lol, but i just need a few easy things that i can use to transition, like maybe "so what r u exactlly doing here?" or "neat accent where u from" and the friend one mack just gav me.
 

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transition is pretty good lately, its making a huge difference, my interest and success is improving a lot with this. I am going to keep gaining more knowledge in this area and with experience its coming more easier, seeing that i get similar situations and i can transist it to the same subject.

this could take a few more weeks to master most of it, then i can go focus on qualification, but guys any tips u have r always welcome.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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curious what you're transitioning between. conversational topics? or are you following a particular pickup model
 

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I am all for randomness. It can be really endearing if done properly. No need for a segue. Just "so, what are we doing Saturday night?" Sounds crazy, but it works.
 

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no model just areas that r interesting and easy to transist to.

1. nationaility
2. what r they doing round this area at the time
3. cold read of job

if there is no where to go from the convosation of the subject we r talking about after opener, i will transist to one of these. I just needed a few more that works well.
 

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i tried a few random things, but didn't work. if it is c&f it might work though, so i'll give it a go.
 
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rushing dude 123 said:
i tried a few random things, but didn't work. if it is c&f it might work though, sop i'll give it a go.
C&F cannot be something you do, It must be something you are. You gotta be C&F all the time, hence you can pull it off effortlessly and not be thinking in your head all the time.

With practice, you will see a pattern, and master the flow of conversation. I goto college right now, all I do is say hi, introduce, talk about random ****, get #. Its really that simple.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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