"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Need Help With Starting Convo

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I know exactly what to say to girls in conversations. But the most trouble I have is how to start a conversation...an opener that is not cheesy and aint the one that deals with relationships. Need some help with openers for HS(perfer opinions...heard they work best)...especially when there is a hot chick at the mall or street. Also is it okay to jus start with hey watsup or hi as your opener all time...even when you see a hot chick?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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War Against Betaism

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In high school I find that just going up to a girl and saying hi works pretty well. What you see in the Pick Up Artist, read in books, those are women that are 20+ years old, they've been approached thousands of times. Plus, most of the hot ones most likely go clubbing, and clubbing increases a girl's approach count by like 10x. In high school, barring a fake ID or hook ups from club owners the only dances these girls have went to are school dances. So opinion openers won't be necessary, however they'll still work.

Just appear confident when you're approaching her, maintain strong eye contact with your target. I remember when Style was going through this approach with one of his students in his program The Annihilation Method, he approached her with his hands in his pockets, back slanted and his head down. There's no way in hell this guy was getting anything out of that approach.
 

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I was thinking the same thing...I just needed to hear that from someone eles.Thanks for the tip
 
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