"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I know exactly what to say to girls in conversations. But the most trouble I have is how to start a conversation...an opener that is not cheesy and aint the one that deals with relationships. Need some help with openers for HS(perfer opinions...heard they work best)...especially when there is a hot chick at the mall or street. Also is it okay to jus start with hey watsup or hi as your opener all time...even when you see a hot chick?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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In high school I find that just going up to a girl and saying hi works pretty well. What you see in the Pick Up Artist, read in books, those are women that are 20+ years old, they've been approached thousands of times. Plus, most of the hot ones most likely go clubbing, and clubbing increases a girl's approach count by like 10x. In high school, barring a fake ID or hook ups from club owners the only dances these girls have went to are school dances. So opinion openers won't be necessary, however they'll still work.

Just appear confident when you're approaching her, maintain strong eye contact with your target. I remember when Style was going through this approach with one of his students in his program The Annihilation Method, he approached her with his hands in his pockets, back slanted and his head down. There's no way in hell this guy was getting anything out of that approach.
 
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I was thinking the same thing...I just needed to hear that from someone eles.Thanks for the tip
 
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