"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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zachp55

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Ok so about 4 months ago i found the girl im going to marry. 100%. we were definetely meant to be and shes absolutely gorgeous. We both agree that were going to get married about a year or 2 from now and we planned our lives together and We are both 17. Anyways, i have a serious problem in our relationship. I literally worry about her so much that i cant even enjoy being with her. i know its really unhealthy and everything but i dont know what to do. Im mostly worried that one day she'll leave me or cheat on me. Even though she hasnt given me one reason to believe that. she re-assures me EVERYDAY that she never will. I cant trust her at all...and i have no reason for it. By the way we spend Every second together, she never hangs out with friends or anyone. And shes done so much for me to prove that she'll never leave...Like, changing her number so theres no chance she would talk to guys, deleting her facebook and twitter, and we even got 500$ promise rings. i dont know what to do but all i know is, i want to be happy with her and enjoy every second together. Just a little info, i had a rough child hood and my dad says i have trust issues because no one was really there for me as a kid and everyone walked out on me so thats probably why. But please give me some good advice so i can get over this....
Thanks Alot
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You are 17. Here is the best advice you could ever receive: get the thought of marriage -- with anyone -- out of your mind. Live, grow as a person, resolve your underlying trust issues, get an education. Get married only after you become a man and that won't be until you're nearing 30.
 
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DonJuanabe said:
You are 17. Here is the best advice you could ever receive: get the thought of marriage -- with anyone -- out of your mind. Live, grow as a person, resolve your underlying trust issues, get an education. Get married only after you become a man and that won't be until you're nearing 30.
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^^^ This^^^

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also, she may seem like 'the one' now, but wait till a few years down the line, she will annoy the hell out of you and youll get bored, youll wanna try some strange.
Trust me, Ive had 3x 'the one's all while i was younger, and a few oneitis cases inbetween.
Now, though im free single and happy. :rockon:
 
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