"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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need help with my 1st car

it Looks...

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bob52

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im thinking about getting a Citroen C2 1.4L FURIO for my first car, heres the main specs:

) 75 BHP
) 0-60mph 12secs
) Insurance Grp 3
) 50 MPG
) 44% value retained(3yrs/36,000mls)
) All these as standard:
--> Central Locking
--> Power Steering
--> 4 Air Bags
--> Immobiliser
--> Remote Locking
--> CD Player
) Optional:
--> Air Con (£500)
--> Alloy Sheels (£300)

Brand New: £8000 - £9000
2nd Hand: £5500 - £7500

Im really liking all of the stuff above but im worried about the look of the car, i really like it but ive only seen one guy so far driving one, the rest of the time its always old woman So my question is:

Is the Citroen C2 a GOOD/NICE/COOL looking car for a guy?





 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Monster

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It looks OK, what are your other options?
$16,000 for a little car like that is kinda a ripoff. You can get a Scion tC or Civic or etc., something bigger and with more power for a little bit more money.
 

g g g unit

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yeah man get it! i would recomend getting it in black tho i reckon it looks more macho lol.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Joe The Homophobe

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bob52, are you european? I ask this because no american would be caught in such a small car!

my guess is that you are european since you don't care about the power or size of the car. In that case our opinions don't matter since our needs in terms of cars are different than that of europeans. Europeans don't drive such big distances as americans so there is no need for big powerful cars. Plus in europe they love small cars.

I say go for it if that is your style. If you can get something bigger and more powerful (just plain manlier) for around the same price then take that instead. Honestly that car looks like something a woman would drive.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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undesputable

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where are you from? just wondering because from where im from we i never see cars like that.
 

immrtlwun

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He's probably from England, based on the fact that he gave the price in pounds.
I don't know what's considered a cool car over in Europe, but in the states, people would die laughing if they saw that car roll up next to them. Nobody in the U.S. drives a car that gets 50 mpg and only has 75 hp, excpet for the few who have one of the civic hybrids.
 

undesputable

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Originally posted by immrtlwun
He's probably from England, based on the fact that he gave the price in pounds.
I don't know what's considered a cool car over in Europe, but in the states, people would die laughing if they saw that car roll up next to them. Nobody in the U.S. drives a car that gets 50 mpg and only has 75 hp, excpet for the few who have one of the civic hybrids.
yea thats what i was thinking. about 80% of the people i know has a car that gets 18 mpg or worst and has 180+ HP
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Brian20o2

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Originally posted by undesputable
yea thats what i was thinking. about 80% of the people i know has a car that gets 18 mpg or worst and has 180+ HP
Hahaha. So true. But hey our gas is like 2.50$ a gal in europe its like 7$
 

tactic

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acuras are good but too expensive
 

Big Eee Zee

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if you would actually buy a citroen, first off im sorry, and second off dont play with sharp objects, cause you obviously cant handle that much thinking. Citroens are, in technical terms, $hitty.

dont go french,ever. like ever ever ever ever EVER!
 

splinterkb

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I'm sorry, but if you think theres anything that looks even remotely masculine on that car, theres something wrong with you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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