Need Help With Girl: Weird Situation

[SoonToBeDJ]

Hey whats up guys I need some advice on this girl. It's a weird situation I'll explain it in a bit. Theres this girl that my friend knows and works in a fast food restaurant. We don't go to this place often I would say about every 3 weeks so I don't see her often. She just broke up with her bf and I think is kind of hurt but she didn't show it but she has to she's a girl. Anyway, me and her get along fine but were usually like making fun of each other but just playing. So the other day she said she had broken up with her bf in a conversation with my friend so it wasn't like we were talking and she told me. Anyway I went to get my drink while I was waiting for my food and I was looking at her and she looked at me and we made eye contact for a second but I think I broke eye contact a little too soon even though you can't hold it for too long or she'll think I am crazy but I think I broke it up a little too fast. There were other times like this where we kinda made eye contact. Well I haven't decided if I should try to talk to her (dating wise) because I am unclear if she is attracted to me. By the stuff that I have told you do you think she is attracted to me? I mean enough to go out with me because I don't want to talk to her unclear if she likes me or not and get shut down because I misunderstood her. Do you think I have a chance? If I do what do I do? I mean I am just another customer who is attracted to her what do I do to make her believe that I am the customer worth spending time with?

 

[hotcypress]

well it seems to me that you dont really see this girl often so I would go for it and not worry about if she rejects me. Check the body language and kino if you want some assurance but even if you think she is intersted go in for the number or date which ever you feel comfortable with.

 

[Raven125]

Just relax man, take it easy. If you want her, then make your moves, if not, use her as practice .

 

[SoonToBeDJ]

Originally posted by Raven125
Just relax man, take it easy. If you want her, then make your moves, if not, use her as practice .

I haven't made up my mind yet. I don't know if I should take the signs she gave me as her being interested in me. I don't want to make a mistake and talk to her when she isn't even interested in me. Did that once too many times and thats why I asked if you guys thought she was interested in me by what I told you. We always were taking shots at each other joking around and finally she said she broke up with her guy and we started to make eye contact so I dunno...

 

[SoonToBeDJ]

Is there anything I should know before asking her for her phone number? She just broke up with her bf recently (I don't know how hurt she is she didn't show it) but is it the right time to ask her for her phone number then ask her out or should I wait since she just broke up with her bf? I don't know the rules to asking a girl out after she broke up with her bf so thats why I am asking. Do you think it is the right time even though she just broke up with her bf?

 

[kevbo]

i think the biggest thing you can learn is that you should decide what you want and go for it. don't sit and worry about whether or not she likes you, as you'll find that out as you make the moves. if you want to date her, just go straight up and say, "hey, what's your phone number?" if she asks why, just say something like you'll need it when you want to go do something with her. do this immediately the next time you see her because if you don't you'll leave too much time for doubt to enter your mind. this is the basis of the 3-second rule. obviously, it means never to take longer than 3 seconds to do something. if you wait, you think. if you think, you doubt. if you doubt, you fail.

 

[SoonToBeDJ]

So would it matter if she just broke up with her bf and I just ask her for her phone number? I don't know if there are any DJ techniques for trying to go out with a girl who just broke up with her boyfriend.