"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Need help with chick that might be flaking

Stringer_Bell213

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Okay so here's my problem I've been talking to this chick online for a bit now and I got her to agree to meet up and we exchanged numbers and everything.

So we were suppose to meet up on Thursday but then when I texted her that day to confirm the date she called later on to tell me she had to cancel cause she got called in for work right, but she suggested Sunday and I agreed.

Okay so yesterday I texted to her find out what time we should meet up since I forgot to set up a time right and well I never got a reply from her yesterday and today is Sunday the day we were suppose to meet up.

So here's my question should I call her or text her again today to see if she still wants to meet up today or should I just forget it and not do anything?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sodbuster

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she already got 1 text from you, IF she was wetting herself with the thought of spending time with you, she'll let you know what time.
 

Stringer_Bell213

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Lol yeah that's what I was thinking but not the answer I wanted haha. Like you said I left her a text so the balls in her court now but I just have a feeling she's not going to reply or get back to me especially since I sent the text yesterday but thanks for the advice I'm not going to make any contact with her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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