"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Need help with chick that might be flaking

Stringer_Bell213

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Okay so here's my problem I've been talking to this chick online for a bit now and I got her to agree to meet up and we exchanged numbers and everything.

So we were suppose to meet up on Thursday but then when I texted her that day to confirm the date she called later on to tell me she had to cancel cause she got called in for work right, but she suggested Sunday and I agreed.

Okay so yesterday I texted to her find out what time we should meet up since I forgot to set up a time right and well I never got a reply from her yesterday and today is Sunday the day we were suppose to meet up.

So here's my question should I call her or text her again today to see if she still wants to meet up today or should I just forget it and not do anything?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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sodbuster

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she already got 1 text from you, IF she was wetting herself with the thought of spending time with you, she'll let you know what time.
 

Stringer_Bell213

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Lol yeah that's what I was thinking but not the answer I wanted haha. Like you said I left her a text so the balls in her court now but I just have a feeling she's not going to reply or get back to me especially since I sent the text yesterday but thanks for the advice I'm not going to make any contact with her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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