I am on the boys track team, some times we see the girls track team and this is this one girl, extremely nice. She has a bf but that doesn’t matter, that mother ****er fat as a ****, and plus she doesn’t even like him. She seams shy, cuz I haven’t seen her talk yet, so how should I approach her????
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Need help with an approach
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
come on, man.. you've got a lot of opportunities. maximize your resources.
ask about a common interest!
you could just come up to her say..
ive seen you around. how long have you been running/doing track?
that simple. dont complicate things. i made that mistake long before.
ask about a common interest!
you could just come up to her say..
ive seen you around. how long have you been running/doing track?
that simple. dont complicate things. i made that mistake long before.
AlexTheGreat
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12 hours 7 minutes, actually
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Don't call me stupid, u have had the best advice and am not following it, who is more likely to be stupid, me or you. I am not trying to insult you (although i dont like ur attitude towards her bf) as i dont care, i was trying to help you.
You know what the best advice is: READ THE BIBLE, it should explain everything. You can also use the search function, i swear i have seen so many very similar questions about approaching girls on track teams.
The gist of all the answers that you will get is to just go up and speak to her. I still have trouble doing it to girls, but what do you lose if she rejects you.
Grab your nuts (metaphorically) and go up and speak to her. The best introduction is hi, my name is . . . whats yours
You know what the best advice is: READ THE BIBLE, it should explain everything. You can also use the search function, i swear i have seen so many very similar questions about approaching girls on track teams.
The gist of all the answers that you will get is to just go up and speak to her. I still have trouble doing it to girls, but what do you lose if she rejects you.
Grab your nuts (metaphorically) and go up and speak to her. The best introduction is hi, my name is . . . whats yours
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
happymeal88
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Buddy, don't call anyone stupid. Cause it seems to me your the one having the problems, not us.
You see this girl all the time, she probably see's you. So while your running, if you see her, drop off from the group and just say something simple like "Hey, what's up?" and introduce yourself. Ask her a few questions like what's her name, what grades she in, stuff like that. Then tell her that you really should catch up to the rest of the group and ask her for her number so you guys can talk again.
Don't ask your friends to help you out, that will never work. She will see you as a wimp, and do you want to be viewed as a wimp?
Check out the bible, though, cause it really does help. Even if it is long
You see this girl all the time, she probably see's you. So while your running, if you see her, drop off from the group and just say something simple like "Hey, what's up?" and introduce yourself. Ask her a few questions like what's her name, what grades she in, stuff like that. Then tell her that you really should catch up to the rest of the group and ask her for her number so you guys can talk again.
Don't ask your friends to help you out, that will never work. She will see you as a wimp, and do you want to be viewed as a wimp?
Check out the bible, though, cause it really does help. Even if it is long
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.