"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Need help with a Trust concern

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Kbish828

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A couple months ago, I met a girl out. We had some drinks and had a great time. Since, we have been dating and things were going great until about a week ago. I admitted that I lied to her the first night we met about what my brother did for a living. It was a pointless lie (just drunk and nerves) and I wanted to let her know because she was going to find out anyways. She initially just laughed it off, but then the next time I saw her she was acting very cold towards. She later admitted she had been thinking about it and is worried she cannot trust me.

I have not reached out to her sense, trying to give her time and space. I am mentally prepared to never talk to this girl again. However she keeps reaching out to me with snapchats and “Have a great day” texts. How do I proceed? Last time we hung out it was miserable, and I don’t want to walk into that again. Should I just continue to give her space and not contact her?

I figure there is nothing I can say or do to "win" her trust back and that I have "lost" her. But if she really does not want to "lose" me she needs some time to think about it, and then she will reach out to me.

Thoughts?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It was a little white lie, I wouldn't worry about it. Just ask her out again, If she says no you know its done. If she says yes and she brings it up say it was a little white lie because you were embarrassed. Everybody lies about the little things.
 
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Never admit anything until you have sex with her, then let the chips fall where they may. What your brother does for a living, doesn't really matter to make her not able to trust you anymore. You showed your weakness to her, which gave her that reaction. If she is in contact with you, see how it goes, then go from there. If you get more coldness, then don't even respond to future responses.
 
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