“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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Anchorman

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There's this girl who I like. She's got a bf, but she says she wants me too. I believe this is true because she always flirts with me, really heavy kino and stuff. Also, a bunch of her friends and people she knows tell me that she likes me.

But apparently, she's still with her bf, so she likes him more.

It';s not really my style to steal a chick from her bf, so i kinda left her alone, act alot more aloof and stuff. This seems to make her interest level go up.

Anyways, I know for sure that il have no problems tapping that ass when she breaks up. I dont really want her as a gf, but rather as a ****buddy or something. She called me and was "drunk", or so she says, and started telling me all the sexual stuff she wanted to do to me.

Now this is the problem: she has a brother, who is not realyl a friend, but just someone I hang out with at school. Some of friends from our group found out that his sister likes me, and they all advise me not to move on her. This guy, her brother, gets really pissed if guys hit on her and stuff. Typical insecure big brother.

For now, I got nothing to worry about. But once she breaks up, I would really like to get me some of that ass.

Any advice on what I should do? Go for it and ignore her bro, or just simply forget about it?

Thanks guys.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

familyguyfan

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Go for it and ignore the brother. He's not in the position to decide for his sister who she wants to date. Just try not to publicize it that you're going for her until after you already have.

And unless you know she's planning on breaking up with her boyfriend soon, you shouldn't just wait around for them to break up while she loses interest in you. Take some action, or at the very least, keep doing things to make her keep interest in you.
 

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if you do go with her, keep it quite. but im not sure its a good idea to go with a girl who is obviously attracted to another guy (and has no problem showing it) even while she has a bf. bu i guess its ok if shes just a ****buddy.
 

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Yeah, im definetely keeping her interest level up though with plenty of kino and stuff. However I dont like getting used for her attentional needs, so I act aloof most of the time.
 

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I'd be careful with this one. I've seen this kinda crap happen before. Most of the time girls will keep "flirt buddies" around while they have a bf to boost their ego. First of all, if she really *liked* you like she said she does, do u think she'd still be with her bf? Second, what kind of chick says she likes someone while shes in a relationship? It sounds like shes just playin you. If she breaks up with her bf then you can go for a hook up, but i wouldn't trust her for anything more than that. Beware of girls who SAY they like you when they're still in a relationship. 9 times of out 10 they're feedin you bs to make themselves feel better.:rolleyes:
 
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