Hey fellow guys this is my first post. I have been a lurker for about 6 month nows, and im finally seeing a difference in my game.
Let me tell you about myself, I am 22 and have never been in a relationship. I used to be very shy and anti-social (I still am but not as much as i used to before this forum). When it comes to talking to women i can never keep up convos and it really becomes akward when i have nothing to say.
Anyway, there is this new girl that just got hired at my job. This girl is everything i always wanted in a girl. The first day she worked i trained her, their was instant kino. When im training her and leave her for a moment she grabs me gently and pulls me toward her.She seems shy around other people besides me. We seem to click well and she seems like shes very interested in me BUT... one day when i was talking to her she tells me she has a BF!
Well atfirst i was kinda torn apart because me and her really clicked well and i felt that she was the only one for me. Seeing how i been single my whole life. But i just kelp it cool and let it go past. Well next day she comes in and looked very tired and i asked her what was wrong and she tells me that her BF and her got in a fight and she got very little sleep. At this point inside i was like "Hell ya maybe i can catch the rebound!" but i said that sucks. She tells me that they been together for 1 year and he she recently moved in with him and things got worse. She tells me she wants to leave him if he continues.
Well at this point i think she likes me and i like her but i don't know if i should tell her how i feel. When we talk im mostly C+F with her, and i feel if i show her how i really feel her IL will drop. Atleast thats what i read about on these forums that if you show a women how you feel it like you sumitting to them that your not a real man.
Well me and this girl works alot together and for some reason the boss is only schedueling us 1 day out of the week so i see her less. So my question is should i let her know how i feel in risk of feeling akward at work if she turns me down? Or should i just wait til she breaks it off with her BF and then catch her? I only see her once a week now if i don't move fast she may lose interest in me.
So i ask you guys. What would you do in my position? All replys would help. Keep in mind i have never been in a relationship before.
Let me tell you about myself, I am 22 and have never been in a relationship. I used to be very shy and anti-social (I still am but not as much as i used to before this forum). When it comes to talking to women i can never keep up convos and it really becomes akward when i have nothing to say.
Anyway, there is this new girl that just got hired at my job. This girl is everything i always wanted in a girl. The first day she worked i trained her, their was instant kino. When im training her and leave her for a moment she grabs me gently and pulls me toward her.She seems shy around other people besides me. We seem to click well and she seems like shes very interested in me BUT... one day when i was talking to her she tells me she has a BF!
Well atfirst i was kinda torn apart because me and her really clicked well and i felt that she was the only one for me. Seeing how i been single my whole life. But i just kelp it cool and let it go past. Well next day she comes in and looked very tired and i asked her what was wrong and she tells me that her BF and her got in a fight and she got very little sleep. At this point inside i was like "Hell ya maybe i can catch the rebound!" but i said that sucks. She tells me that they been together for 1 year and he she recently moved in with him and things got worse. She tells me she wants to leave him if he continues.
Well at this point i think she likes me and i like her but i don't know if i should tell her how i feel. When we talk im mostly C+F with her, and i feel if i show her how i really feel her IL will drop. Atleast thats what i read about on these forums that if you show a women how you feel it like you sumitting to them that your not a real man.
Well me and this girl works alot together and for some reason the boss is only schedueling us 1 day out of the week so i see her less. So my question is should i let her know how i feel in risk of feeling akward at work if she turns me down? Or should i just wait til she breaks it off with her BF and then catch her? I only see her once a week now if i don't move fast she may lose interest in me.
So i ask you guys. What would you do in my position? All replys would help. Keep in mind i have never been in a relationship before.