"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Need Help with a Cold Approach

mamefan77

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Was hoping some of the master DJs here could give me some good ideas on how to pull off a certain cold approach...

There's this gal that works alone in a very small acct office. I think she owns the place, as she's always the only one in there. Her desk is just inside the door --- I went in there one day by accident looking for a copy place. She directed me to the correct store-front.

Super cute and no ring - I did notice that. It's been awhile since I walked in there... I know she won't remember me.

I don't think I can just walk into her office and bust a move on her -- she's an acct and Im sure she would think Im a freak...

And my taxes are already done for the year....

Any ideas???

Thanks!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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khanboy

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Yo,

This isn't really a tactic or technique that other DJs may have in their arsenal to help you, but I'll mention it for it may be of some use.

Change the following thought:

"I don't think I can just walk into her office and bust a move on her -- she's an acct and Im sure she would think Im a freak..."

To something along the lines of:

"I will just walk into her office and bust a move on her - Surely she'd be flattered and up for meeting a great guy like me."

Just a thought,
khanboy
 

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Tough one eh, just gotta think of something funny to do and get her number. You have nothing to lose, right?

How about something like
Her: "Can I help you?"
You: (while looking back and forth and all over) "I was looking for your boyfriend"

OR

You: "Want to go back to my place, have sex and eat pizza?"
Her: "um, no thanks"
You: "What, you don't like pizza?"

OR

You: "Did we go to school together?"
Her: "I don't recall"
You: "Me neither."

OR

You: "Have you gone out to lunch yet?" (perhaps ask when the chances are slim that she has)
Her: "No"
You: "I'd be glad to take you out to So-So if you wish to join me"

OR

You: Walk past her window several times, drawing her attention each time doing something funny each time. Like walking down imaginary stairs, or getting hit by a car in front of the window, or no, no that's gay idea scratch that.

Use your imagination. You make her laugh and she'll give you her number or go out to lunch with you.

Good Luck Holmes!
 

mamefan77

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Originally posted by Spiter

You: Walk past her window several times, drawing her attention each time doing something funny each time. Like walking down imaginary stairs, or getting hit by a car in front of the window, or no, no that's gay idea scratch that.
lol!
good one! - I actually like this idea :)

Like khanboy suggested --- guess Im just gonna have to get some balls and do it

thanks guys
 
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