"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Need Help with a Cold Approach

mamefan77

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Was hoping some of the master DJs here could give me some good ideas on how to pull off a certain cold approach...

There's this gal that works alone in a very small acct office. I think she owns the place, as she's always the only one in there. Her desk is just inside the door --- I went in there one day by accident looking for a copy place. She directed me to the correct store-front.

Super cute and no ring - I did notice that. It's been awhile since I walked in there... I know she won't remember me.

I don't think I can just walk into her office and bust a move on her -- she's an acct and Im sure she would think Im a freak...

And my taxes are already done for the year....

Any ideas???

Thanks!
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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khanboy

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Yo,

This isn't really a tactic or technique that other DJs may have in their arsenal to help you, but I'll mention it for it may be of some use.

Change the following thought:

"I don't think I can just walk into her office and bust a move on her -- she's an acct and Im sure she would think Im a freak..."

To something along the lines of:

"I will just walk into her office and bust a move on her - Surely she'd be flattered and up for meeting a great guy like me."

Just a thought,
khanboy
 

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Tough one eh, just gotta think of something funny to do and get her number. You have nothing to lose, right?

How about something like
Her: "Can I help you?"
You: (while looking back and forth and all over) "I was looking for your boyfriend"

OR

You: "Want to go back to my place, have sex and eat pizza?"
Her: "um, no thanks"
You: "What, you don't like pizza?"

OR

You: "Did we go to school together?"
Her: "I don't recall"
You: "Me neither."

OR

You: "Have you gone out to lunch yet?" (perhaps ask when the chances are slim that she has)
Her: "No"
You: "I'd be glad to take you out to So-So if you wish to join me"

OR

You: Walk past her window several times, drawing her attention each time doing something funny each time. Like walking down imaginary stairs, or getting hit by a car in front of the window, or no, no that's gay idea scratch that.

Use your imagination. You make her laugh and she'll give you her number or go out to lunch with you.

Good Luck Holmes!
 

mamefan77

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Originally posted by Spiter

You: Walk past her window several times, drawing her attention each time doing something funny each time. Like walking down imaginary stairs, or getting hit by a car in front of the window, or no, no that's gay idea scratch that.
lol!
good one! - I actually like this idea :)

Like khanboy suggested --- guess Im just gonna have to get some balls and do it

thanks guys
 
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