"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I met this girl around the end of 2006 we were dating for a while in 2006 and a little in 07 then she moved to Fl which lead to a break up because I live in Nc before she moved she was wanting me to move to fl with her and her family love's me they let me sleepover at there house a bunch of time's I was her only Bf that treat her good so the girl family pick up on it and they told me to move with them So I said I be down there soon has school end that year they said ok so they moved and I was still here I got her number and everything else we were talking on the phone then she sent me a email saying I think we should stop dating so I got pissed and did not talk to her after while she start calling me begging for me back so I got on the Pc send her a email asking I am going to the uk If you still want to date write me back and tell me not to go

well she waited for like three month's to answer the email it could be money problem's and surgery problem's her her Father got arrested

she wrote back Moved to Florida!!! and I send Another Email asking for her number and she give it to me

so what should I do moved to Fl or to The UK:up: :down:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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pingpongz

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FOLLOW your heart man....


On a more serious note... why the **** would u chase a woman around the world ?
 
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You went to school, and never learned puncuation? As far as the gist of your message, I say don't bother. Relationships are not a game and neither of you seem to understand that. The best thing to do is cut your losses.
 
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bennyhill said:
You went to school, and never learned puncuation? As far as the gist of your message, I say don't bother. Relationships are not a game and neither of you seem to understand that. The best thing to do is cut your losses.
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Nothing I could say would be any more succinct than this brother.

Perfectly stated.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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move to florida...

if for anything else, i would love to hear the horror in this action after you leave your life behind to chase this women.
 
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DavenJuan said:
move to florida...

if for anything else, i would love to hear the horror in this action after you leave your life behind to chase this women.
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I second this motion. Because we all know what we say isn't going to matter, he's just coming on here looking for validation. Might as well learn the hard way.
 
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That post is a little hard to read because it's one giant sentence. Periods, man, periods!

Seriously, though, she isn't worth it. No woman would leave you hanging for three months if she was interested. Don't ruin your life for her. If you feel you need to move somewhere then go to England. Find a pretty English lady and make her moan your name with that cute accent.:up:

Move on. You'll regret it later if you don't.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why are you asking strangers to help you make this "life changing decision" on an internet message board, providing little to no information about your own life... just telling us you met a girl and you could potentially move to be with her? Don't you have anything else going for you in your life?

Move country to go on a spiritual journey, move country to learn how to tapdance, move country to experience a culture, but don't move for some girl you've sort of dated who can't be bothered to email you for three months. She will know you are prepared to do whatever she likes, lose interest in you, and you'll be stuck in bloody Florida on your own, like a discarded hamburger.

You need a backbone and a calling. Neither are to be found in this girl's pvssy.

Please come to the UK. You'll be more than welcome! We've got a great sense of humour and awesome cities. And read the DJ Bible.
 
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