Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I met this girl around the end of 2006 we were dating for a while in 2006 and a little in 07 then she moved to Fl which lead to a break up because I live in Nc before she moved she was wanting me to move to fl with her and her family love's me they let me sleepover at there house a bunch of time's I was her only Bf that treat her good so the girl family pick up on it and they told me to move with them So I said I be down there soon has school end that year they said ok so they moved and I was still here I got her number and everything else we were talking on the phone then she sent me a email saying I think we should stop dating so I got pissed and did not talk to her after while she start calling me begging for me back so I got on the Pc send her a email asking I am going to the uk If you still want to date write me back and tell me not to go

well she waited for like three month's to answer the email it could be money problem's and surgery problem's her her Father got arrested

she wrote back Moved to Florida!!! and I send Another Email asking for her number and she give it to me

so what should I do moved to Fl or to The UK:up: :down:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FOLLOW your heart man....


On a more serious note... why the **** would u chase a woman around the world ?
 
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You went to school, and never learned puncuation? As far as the gist of your message, I say don't bother. Relationships are not a game and neither of you seem to understand that. The best thing to do is cut your losses.
 
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bennyhill said:
You went to school, and never learned puncuation? As far as the gist of your message, I say don't bother. Relationships are not a game and neither of you seem to understand that. The best thing to do is cut your losses.
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Nothing I could say would be any more succinct than this brother.

Perfectly stated.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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move to florida...

if for anything else, i would love to hear the horror in this action after you leave your life behind to chase this women.
 
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DavenJuan said:
move to florida...

if for anything else, i would love to hear the horror in this action after you leave your life behind to chase this women.
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I second this motion. Because we all know what we say isn't going to matter, he's just coming on here looking for validation. Might as well learn the hard way.
 
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That post is a little hard to read because it's one giant sentence. Periods, man, periods!

Seriously, though, she isn't worth it. No woman would leave you hanging for three months if she was interested. Don't ruin your life for her. If you feel you need to move somewhere then go to England. Find a pretty English lady and make her moan your name with that cute accent.:up:

Move on. You'll regret it later if you don't.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why are you asking strangers to help you make this "life changing decision" on an internet message board, providing little to no information about your own life... just telling us you met a girl and you could potentially move to be with her? Don't you have anything else going for you in your life?

Move country to go on a spiritual journey, move country to learn how to tapdance, move country to experience a culture, but don't move for some girl you've sort of dated who can't be bothered to email you for three months. She will know you are prepared to do whatever she likes, lose interest in you, and you'll be stuck in bloody Florida on your own, like a discarded hamburger.

You need a backbone and a calling. Neither are to be found in this girl's pvssy.

Please come to the UK. You'll be more than welcome! We've got a great sense of humour and awesome cities. And read the DJ Bible.
 
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