"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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speed dawg

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Chantix and all that other crap won't work.

I like smoking too much. It makes me feel like crap when I smoke too much, but on the whole I like it. Gives me a way to 'get away' from whatever I'm doing at the time and take a break, whether it be a social function, long day at work, etc. Gives me something to do when I'm on the cell phone. I love smoking when I drink and play golf. I love smoking while I drive long distances (which I frequently have to do for work).

Ideas? Really the only reason I even want to quit is because it's so bad for you.

I wonder if there's such a thing as smoking in moderation? Wonder if there's some statistics that say so many cigarettes is what raises your chances for cancer?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Amjad

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Hi speed dawg,
Few tips on how to quit smoking:
Make a plan to quit smoking and stick with your decision,
Buy a saving jar and keep the money you would spend on ciggerates.
Give yourself reward by planning for a treat with this money,
Keep your teeth clean,
Visit your doctor and get support from him.
 

fivestarplayer

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Cold Turkey is the only legit way. I was like you and had no desire to quit smoking. I smoked for 4 years. When I went through basic your not allowed to smoke at all for 9 weeks. It was hell, I was goin through withdraws, detox, and feening like a mofo. On top of dealing with the stress of dealing with all the dumb bs they like to play there.

When I finally made it out I had a few smokes at tech school but I didn't pick it back up(no desire too.) Havnt had a cigg in 2years. I'd blaze before I smoked another cig.
 
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